It seems pretty clear that if somebody wants to put something on their car (nickname, fancy paint job, sail, dead cow, etc), they will. If they don't, they won't. Somebody doesn't want to run something that somebody else does? OK, fine. What's the problem?
I don't think anyone will argue about the great job that Chuck has done of giving us a place to race that offers relatively cheap, fun racing, but I don't see that that's what this conversation is about. It's about wanting to run something on the car or not wanting to run something on the car, which I guess is an encouraging sign, if that's the worst thing we have to disagree about with less than 3 weeks to go before the first event of the year.
On the upside, I guess it's nice to be racing in a group that feels free to talk openly about these things! It would be much worse, in my opinion, to be in a class where we all just show up at the track, race for 2 days, and then all disappear until the next event (all the while not pitting together or otherwise hanging out at the track). That's what 90% of racing classes out there are like, and I'm glad to not be in one of those.