I don't know about the bent valves but I think the rod bearing was probably caused by a combination of factors with the excessive temps being the final straw. These engines normally fail at the #2 rod bearing and your high oil temps would have made for very low viscosity oil. Combine that with a very long time on full throttle at Miller, fast sweeping turns, and you have a recipe for disaster.
After trashing two engines at the #2 rod bearing, I finally spent the money to do all the oil system mods allowed and invested in a good oil cooler and accusump. All in all, it is relatively cheap insurance. Consider the cost of going to Nationals and blowing an engine....